Hagar
Genesis 16 & 21:8-20
“You are the God who sees me. I have no seen the One who sees me.” (Genesis 16:13)
Abram’s wife, Sarai, had an Egyptian slave named Hagar. Hagar likely became their slave while they were living in Egypt, before God instructed them to leave and go to Canaan. When Sarai became convinced she would never have children, she told Abram to have a child with Hagar, so that Sarai could have offspring through her. In that cultural context, it was common for a man to father a child with his slave if his wife was unable to conceive. The child was considered the father’s property and, in some cases, could become his heir. Since Hagar was bound to Abram for life, she had no choice in the matter.
So Sarai gave Hagar to Abram as his wife. Initially, when Sarai suggested that Abram father a child through Hagar, the two women may have had a cordial relationship. But that changed once the union was consummated. When Hagar became pregnant, she became belligerent toward Sarai, and they began to despise each other. Sarai complained to Abram that Hagar was mistreating her. Abram refused to get involved in the women’s conflict, so Sarai treated Hagar so harshly that Hagar ran away.
Alone in the wilderness, an angel spoke to Hagar. She explained that she was running away from Sarai. The angel told her to return to Abram and Sarai, for she was pregnant. He also instructed her to name her son Ishmael, and foretold that he would be a wild man, at odds with others, yet would become the leader of a nation. Hagar returned, and Ishmael was born when Abram was 86 years old.
After Ishmael’s birth, God made a covenant with Abram that he would become the father of many nations. He changed Abram’s name to Abraham and Sarai’s to Sarah. God also promised Sarah a son, and although she doubted, she gave birth to Isaac. Isaac and Ishmael grew up as Abraham’s sons. But when Sarah saw Ishmael taunting Isaac on the day of Isaac’s weaning, she demanded that Hagar and Ishmael be sent away. Though this distressed Abraham, God told him to do as Sarah said, because God would also make a nation of Ishmael’s descendants.
Hagar and Ishmael were banished into the wilderness. When the water and supplies Abraham had given them ran out, both cried out in despair. But God heard their cries, and when Hagar opened her eyes, she saw a well that God provided, from which they could drink.
God protected Ishmael, who grew up to become a skilled archer. Hagar later found an Egyptian wife for him.
Devotional Lessons
Lesson 1: Seen in Our Pain
Scripture Focus: Genesis 16:1–14
Hagar, an Egyptian servant, is given by Sarai to Abram to bear a child. After conceiving, Hagar despises Sarai, who then treats her harshly. Hagar flees into the wilderness, where the angel of the Lord finds her.
Study Questions:
- Why do you think Sarai blamed Abram for her mistreatment of Hagar (Gen. 16:5)? What does this reveal about the brokenness in this household?
- How did Hagar’s circumstances change from being honored with a child to fleeing in despair?
- The angel tells Hagar to return and submit. How does this command challenge our natural desire for escape when hurt?
- What new name does Hagar give God, and what does that name mean for someone feeling invisible?
Personal Reflection:
Think of a time you felt unseen, abandoned, or crushed by someone else’s choices. Where was God in that moment? Write a short prayer acknowledging how God saw you then.
Memory Verse:
“You are the God who sees me.” — Genesis 16:13 (NIV)
Lesson 2: God Hears Our Cry
Scripture Focus: Genesis 21:8–19
After Isaac is born, Sarah sees Ishmael mocking Isaac and demands that Hagar and Ishmael be cast out. Abraham reluctantly sends them away with bread and water. In the wilderness of Beersheba, the water runs out, and Hagar places Ishmael under a bush, unable to watch him die.
Study Questions:
- Why do you think God tells Abraham to listen to Sarah’s demand (Gen. 21:12)? How does this show God’s plan unfolding, despite human sin?
- How does Hagar express her desperation in 21:15–16? What does her distance from Ishmael reveal about her emotional state?
- After Hagar weeps, God “hears” the boy’s voice (Gen. 21:17). Why is it significant that God hears Ishmael, and what does that teach us about intercession?
- God opens Hagar’s eyes to a well. What “wells” of provision has God placed in your life that you have been too despairing to see?
Personal Reflection:
Recall a moment of desperation when you felt your resources were gone. How did God meet you—perhaps through a person, a Scripture, or an unexpected provision?
Memory Verse:
“God heard the boy crying, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, ‘Do not be afraid; God has heard the boy crying as he lies there.’” — Genesis 21:17 (NIV)
Lesson 3: Promises for the Outcast
Scripture Focus: Genesis 21:18–21; Genesis 17:20
God promises to make Ishmael into a great nation. Hagar is told to lift the boy up, and God is with him as he grows up in the wilderness, becomes an archer, and marries an Egyptian woman.
Study Questions:
- God promises that Ishmael will become a nation (Gen. 17:20; 21:18). How does this fulfill God’s earlier care for Hagar, even though Ishmael is not the child of the covenant God established between Himself and Abraham?
- Why does the text note that Hagar took an Egyptian wife for Ishmael (21:21)? How might this detail show God’s guidance continuing?
- Compare Hagar’s two wilderness encounters (Gen. 16 and 21). How has her faith changed, or what seems similar?
- How can we comfort someone today who feels like a “secondary character” in God’s story?
Personal Reflection:
Have you ever felt like an outsider in God’s family? Write a promise God has given you—even a small one—that reminds you He has a future for you.
Memory Verse:
“Lift the boy up and take him by the hand, for I will make him into a great nation.” — Genesis 21:18 (NIV)
Lesson 4: From Suffering to Strength
Scripture Focus: Genesis 21:20–21; Galatians 4:21–31 (Paul’s allegorical use of Hagar and Sarah)
Paul uses Hagar and Sarah as a comparison of two covenants: one of slavery (law, earthly Jerusalem) and one of freedom (promise, heavenly Jerusalem). He affirms that believers are children of the free woman.
Study Questions:
- Paul says Hagar represents Mount Sinai and slavery. How might this challenge our tendency to earn God’s favor through our efforts?
- Why does Paul quote Isaiah 54:1 (“the barren woman has more children”) in Galatians 4:27? How does that truth bring hope to those who feel spiritually “barren”?
- How does Hagar’s story—a non-Israelite, a woman, a servant—demonstrate that God’s grace extends beyond religious boundaries?
- In what ways can your past suffering become strength for someone else’s journey?
Personal Reflection:
Think of one hardship from your past that God has redeemed. How can you share that story this week as an act of encouragement to someone who feels forsaken?
Memory Verse:
“Therefore, brothers and sisters, we are not children of the slave woman, but of the free woman.” — Galatians 4:31 (NIV)